Monday, October 28, 2013

Grady's Birthday Week

Grady's birthday week was full of all kinds of events. It's hard to believe that his 5th birthday has come and gone. It's weird to say that I have a 5 year old.... Am I really that old? Apparently so.

Last weekend we went home to help with the Helping Hand Benefit, which I think went really well. Brandy, my sister, did an outstanding job of speaking truth about the needs in the  community. Since we were home, Grady was able to see a few of his Grandparents, and ended up with this...

 
He was super excited, and we had to start building right away. We built legos all week, and now have all 5 boxes put together. I must say that I really enjoyed putting them together. It was a great time of just sitting and working with Grady while Grace was napping.
 
On Tuesday of Grady's birthday week, Grady got to go on a field trip to a farm. While he was there he picked a pumpkin, saw a baby lamb, went on a hayride, and ate donuts. He really seemed to enjoy his first field trip.


This past week was also spirit week at NTBI. This past weekend was Tribal Cup, which is a competition between NTBI Jackson and NTBI Waukesha (which is the campus in Wisconsin). Tuesday we dressed with our twins the Godsey's...



Wednesday, Grace dress wacky for Wacky Wednesday. Grady did not want to dress wacky for school.

 
For Formal Friday, Kent and I dress up as well. It was fun taking out our fancy clothes.

 

Ok, so we're going to go back to Grady's birthday celebrations. Wednesday, Grady had his first birthday party with friends. Samuel and Griffen came over for lunch. Grady picked out the menu, so they had box macaroni and chesse, hot dogs, apple sauce, juice and cupcakes. I didn't have any problems getting them to eat that lunch!


After a birthday lunch, they played legos for awhile, ok really it was like 3 hours. They did really well together, and Grady really enjoyed having them over.


Finally, Thursday had arrived and Grady's actual 5th Birthday was here. Since it was his birthday, and food is very important to me, Grady got to pick out his breakfast meal. Which ended up being pop tarts!
 
 
 
After school and a wonderful lunch of potato soup, which Grady also picked, we opened presents. 
 


 
My favorite present was the world blanket that he got. About 4 weeks ago he picked out the fabric with the world map on it and then I turned it into a blanket. I love that Grady loves to look at maps. I believe he knows more about where things are in the world, at the age of 5 than I did at the age of 28.
 

Later that afternoon, Grady and I went to check the mailbox and Grady had two packages. One from his grandm, Lala, and one from his babysitter in Bluffton, Madison.


I'm pretty sure that I was more excited than he was. The bottle was so cool. All of these things were stuffed inside the bottle and the bottle came in the mail just like any other package. I love getting the mail here at NTBI. Mostly it just brings junk mail and bills, but every once in awhile it brings really cool packages like these.


Later still that afternoon, Kent and I had ran out to get a winter coat for Grace. We hadn't been out for 15 minutes and Kent's dad calls. He was at NTBI! He had drove 2.5 hours to surprise Grady for his birthday with 4 pizzas and 4 2-liters of pop. It was wonderful. So we ate supper at 3:45 that after noon.


And then we had cake with Grandpa Rockwell. He is such a blessing to our family. We're so thankful that he came up to surprise us and share Grady's special day.


Now, in case you've lost track of the day, we're still on Thursday, Grady's actual birthday. After Grandpa Rockwell left, we headed out to a trout farm in Jackson. It was pretty cold so we had to bundle up. Grace barrowed a snowsuit from Rilla, and we headed out.


While we were there, we road a hay ride, saw lots of trout and ate donuts. Grady also got to play with his friend Gavin. It was a great ending to his birthday!


To finish the week, my friend, Kate, and I ran the 5K for the Tribal Cup. We were going to run a 5K last weekend, but decided to run this one since it was free! We knew that we would not do well, but I didn't expect to come in last by 5 minutes! My goal was to run it without walking, but that didn't happen either. It was definitely humbling. But we did finish and it was something that we can say we did together! Here is our before picture.....


And our after picture. It was exhausting but still a good experience.


Kent did his part as well for the Tribal Cup. He went with his friend Ray to play football. Despite their hard effort, the Jackson football team fell short of the winning. But they put forth a good effort none the less. However, over all Jackson did win the Trial Cup!


The week was full of lots of exciting events, but as always life keeps moving on. We have an Exodus test tomorrow and need to read the rest of Leviticus by Monday.

In the mists of all this God is working on molding us to be more like him. This week he's ask me to slow down. To focus on my marriage and training my children. I can have tons of people over, have my house picked up, the laundry done, supper on the table, my homework done, and get all A's and B's but none of that will matter when we move on from here. It will matter that in spite of busy weeks like this, I keep going in him. In spite of my busy week, it will matter that I loved my husband and cared about his needs. In spite of busy weeks like this, it will matter that I still made time to train my children and read books to them. Funny how God always allows for things to get done when our priorities are straight and he's the center focus of what we're doing.

Sunday, October 6, 2013

Frequently Asked Questions

We were blessed enough to go home again this weekend. Kent's dad's 60th birthday was on Saturday, so we decided to go home and wish him happy birthday. My sister, Brandy, was kind enough to open her home, feed us, and help us with our kids.

While visiting with people I realize that I get many of the same questions. Therefore, I decided that I would do a post about the questions I sometimes get and the answers to them.

FAQ #1: Are the classes what you thought they would be?
YES! They far exceed the expectations that we have. We're learning not only about the Bible, how it flows together and the book of Genesis, but we're also learning how to study the bible and how to share our faith with others. The classes challenge our walk and increase our understanding of the Word.

FAQ #2: Are you settled?
Yes we are. It took longer than I thought it would, but we're finally there. The settled part involves so much more than just having everything in our apartment put away. It involves figuring out a schedule, working on relationships, seeing what works for the kids and what doesn't work, knowing how much time we'll need for which homework assignments, knowing how long does a "quick trip" to the store really take, and as a married couple, getting into a grove that works for us all to function together everyday, all day.

FAQ #3 How are the kids adjusting?
Grady is doing well. He loves people! He gets to go pre-school 5 days a week and play with other boys his age, and then every day at 3:30ish he gets to go outside and play some more with them. I'm pretty sure he's just thankful to be settled. He's know since May that we were moving, first to the Lockwood's and then here. We finally have a home. A place we can call our own.

This would be Grady with his two playmates and Grace. They love to play outside and climb all over. I'm pretty sure the boys thought they were going to save the world!


FAQ #4 Do you take the same classes?
Yes and no. Kent goes to a class at 8:00, while I get the kids ready for day care. I'm not required to take that class. I take the kids at 9:00 to day care, and 2 or more days a week I go to chapel and Kent goes everyday. Then at 10:00 and 11:00 we sit beside each other in class. Right now we have 2 classes, but that will end on Friday, and we'll have the same class from 10 to noon with a 10 min break in the middle. Kent also has to take some electives that I don't have to take. Currently, his class is Tuesday and Thursday from 1:10 to 2:00. This means that Kent will graduate with a associates degree in pastoral ministries and I'll graduate with a certificate.

FQA #5 What do you need right now?
This question always gets me. What do I need? I had two ladies ask me what I needed today. They have both already given me many things, whether it's gift cards, laundry soap, shampoo, candy for the kids, or paper products. So what do we need... We need your prayers. I tell people we're here for 2 reasons, to learn about God's word and to make our marriage stronger. So my prayer would be that the things we're learning would not be just head knowledge, but heart knowledge too. Also, that God would use this time to strength our marriage. I've already seen Him working in this. Through some experiences over the last year, I have a better understanding that our marriage has to be rock solid before we can be missionaries. I'm thankful for this time to work on it.

Well, I think that's it for now. If more questions arise, I'll be sure to share them. We're blessed enough to get to be in Bluffton again in 2 weeks. We'll be staying with Brandy and helping her with the Helping Hands Pregnancy Resource Center's Benefit Dinner. The Dinner is of no cost. It will be Saturday, October 19th at the 4-H building in Bluffton. The doors open and appetizers at 6:00pm and supper at 6:30pm. Even though there is no cost, you still need to make reservations by October 13th. You can do that by calling 260.824.4263 or by emailing events@helpinghandscpc.org. Tammie is doing the food and I get the privilege of helping her prepare it and serve it. It's always a rush to serve as many people as you can in as short as time as possible. I hope you'll join us. It's a great time of fellowship and gaining knowledge of what Helping Hands is all about. If the above options are too difficult for you to make reservations, just send me a text and I'll get you signed up.
Yes, that was my shameless promotion for Helping Hands, but I believe in the work that they are doing and hope that you'll take the opportunity to join us to find out for yourself.

Three Events

So truth be told, I love to have people at my house. I totally enjoy being able to serve people, to feed them, talk with them, and give them a place to relax. Last week, in the span of 5 days we were able to host 35 or so people at our home on 3 different occasions. Here they are...

Event #1: Open Dorm night
This event is geared towards the singles at our school so the guys and girls can go into each other dorms, since they aren't allowed to do this on any other day. Kent said why not invite some people over to our house.... well it ended up being all the married couples and their children.

We all ordered the free pizza from the cafeteria. As usual, it was amazing!


We started supper with 7 adults and grew to 16 sitting around our 6 person table.


5 kids ate pizza at the coffee table.


After supper, the ladies sat around and visited.


So did some of the men,


Some of them played games. They played 2 games, this is the second one. It's called Masterpiece. Now.... Kent, Ben(my brother), and Aaron and Ryan(my brother-in-laws) are ban from playing this game. We found out after some time that the guys had figured out a way to cheat and thus always beat us girls. So Kent finally found another group of people that would play with him!


The entire evening was wonderful. Grace came to me at 10 and told me she was tired, so I put her to bed. Grady and his friends, Gavin and Hosanna, were still going strong. We laughed, talked and just enjoyed being together as friends. Finally at midnight, everyone thought they should probably retire for the evening. Grady did in fact stay up till then, but fell asleep just as soon as he was in bed. Lana, helped me pick up and I'm so glad she did, because the next morning we moved right into event 2.

Event #2: Lunch with the Single Guys next door.
   About 3 weeks ago, Kent invited the dorm next door over for fired chicken! I didn't think they would take him seriously, but I was so glad they did. We started cooking at 10am. We made fired chicken, mashed potatoes, gravy, corn, bread(which was a total flop) and apple crisp. Nine guys came over at noon and seemed to enjoy the good food and fellowship.


Event #3: Married Ladies Chapel
Every Tuesday, the Ladies and Men meet separately for chapel. The men meet at the same house, but the ladies move around. Tuesday morning it was my turn to host. Monday evening brought picking up the house and preparing a light breakfast. It was a blessing to gather together with this ladies. I'm thankful for each opportunity to meet with them and get to know them a little more.

 
We've been here 7 weeks. When I first came, I thought I would never make friends. But as we all know, relationships take time. Lots of time. I'm grateful that God allowed us to have these events so close together. They were a great time to build relationships. Each conversation is a blessing, a chance to gain a little more understanding of these women.  


Thursday, September 26, 2013

The Month that was September...

A quick glance at the calendar says September is nearly gone. Brenda and I are really settled into life here at New Tribes Bible Institute. Life is very busy and exciting on campus with activities ranging from intramural sports to hog roasts, campfires and fellow shipping with faculty and students. Studying God's Word has been nothing short of absolutely awesome! The instructors are and have been amazing. For me I'm not sure what my expectations really were. All I know is it has exceeded them exponentially.
Homework keeps Brenda and me fairly busy, but we have had plenty of time to explore life outside the campus. New Tribes encourages us to attend a local church and get involved. Brenda and I are still searching for one we both agree on. So something to be prayerful for if you wouldn't mind!
September started with a Michigan Football game in Ann Arbor, about thirty-five minutes from Jackson with a good friend from Bluffton, Kerry McClroy. The weekend ended with a married dessert social on Labor Day orchestrated by my lovely wife. She did an amazing job and it really helped me gain five extra pounds, not to mention helped us start to gel with the people we will be spending the next two plus years with.  Some of these families could potentially complete the training with us at the same time.
The following weekend we traveled to the lake home of some dear friends, Doc and Fritzi Nodine in Hamilton, Indiana. They are the proud grandparents of a young boy named Jones. Because Doc and Fritzi are so fond of "Jonesy" they erected a swing set that our children found irresistible.


 
 

Here are the kids chilling by the lake at the beautiful Nodine home.


As if that wasn't enough, Doc topped the evening off spoiling us with an incredible boat ride around the lake to conclude a beautiful evening.


The kids found "Tootsie" the Nodine's blind schnauzer more entertaining than the ride at times.


The weekend of September fourteenth and fifteenth, New Tribes Bible Institute staff hosted a hog roast off campus at Somerset Lake, a small lake and recreation area south of the school about thirty minutes.
Once again our kids were in euphoria as New Tribes had an air filled castle meant for jumping inside when we arrived.
The food was great, the fellowship was great, and the activities were a blast for all of us. It was a great night, one that made you glad to be here in Michigan and associated with a great organization as New Tribes Mission.

 
Grady in the castle, the story of the evening and no doubt his highlight. He was soooo happy, jumping with his friends Samuel and Griffin!
 
 
Here is Grace. If you are what you eat then she hit it right on this evening, eating sweets!
 
 
This hot girl let me take a picture with her. This obviously was the highlight of my night!
 
The next weekend was the big trip back home to Bluffton for the Bluffton Street Fair. We crammed a lot in in forty-eight hours, but it was a blast! Just hours back in town at our awesome friends the Lockwood's (Kyle and Marci),
sister Brandy sniffed us out. After a nice supper at Corner Depot with the Lockwood's, the Rockwell's and Lockwood's picked up Brandy took to the streets of the great Street Fair. We found some familiar faces, caught up with old friends, and ate some great fried food.


Ben's Pretzels continue to be the bomb at the Street Fair!
(Left to Right, Brandy, Marci, Brenda)
 
 
Zum Sticks continue to be a Street Fair staple. Brenda and Brandy disappeared from site and returned with these beauts moments later!
 
 
As you can see, I will do almost anything for the Queen of my heart, even hold this poka-dot umbrella!
 
The next morning I woke up early and met a dear friend Joel Draper for breakfast. We caught up and had a decent chat. Joel is a Notre Dame fan, we trade shots regularly, but amazingly one of my best true friends in this world. They don't get much more real as far as friends go than Draper. I had to make time for him.
After breakfast with Joel I went to see my father Ted Rockwell. My dad has been unbelievable and supportive through this journey. My father has filled up my cup so many times in my life, but nothing has meant as much as receiving his blessing, love and support the day we went out for lunch in Ft. Wayne and I revealed the plan to go into the foreign mission field.
I remember not truly knowing what he might say or how he might react. I was concerned and fearful to tell him because what I was going to say would not be easy to swallow. Why would he be supportive? After all, I'm walking away from him to serve Christ and taking his grandchildren with me. Many fathers would not approve of such a radical move that sounds so reckless and pointless in this day and age. As the words left my mouth I expected the worst, but I can honestly say I knew my father loved me and the response, even if negative, would be soft, but there are no guarantees in this life. So my nerves ramped up. The moment for my father to land his rebuttal was now before me. The look from his eyes and the words that flowed from his mouth as he looked up at me were what most sons only dream to hear. To hear your dad say, "I'm proud of you Kent, and I love you with all my heart, I support what your doing." Those things only end up in Hollywood movies. My father has blessed me throughout my life and has supported me and loved me when I clearly and definitely didn't deserve it. In times of trouble I would call him, the voice on the other end of the phone always responded with these words. "I'll be right there."
Dad got a new Iphone recently and is still learning to use it. He will probably never read this post, but none the less I am so blessed to call this man my "dad." Dad was glad to see me, and we chatted for quite a while. He sent me home with a card for Brenda for her birthday and lots of things for his grandchildren like, kites, snow tubes, and kids movies. My father is amazing and I know how blessed I am to have him as my earthly father. Every Sunday afternoon he has called me to talk with me and make sure I'm alright as well as the kids. I will always be in debt to him for all he has done for me...Come to think of it, kind of like my Heavenly Father! Man, I love them both!!
At noon we met some other dear friends of ours for lunch. Jay and Dot Kipfer have been friends of mine for over fifteen years and Brenda's for more than ten years. This couple is incredible to us in so many ways. Jay stepped up and made me feel welcome at family events when I was hanging with the Drayers and Baumgartner's. Jay always stayed in contact with me and a friendship blossomed. With the Kipfers we play great games, chat, go to sporting events, etc. with them. This is another one of those friendships you keep a mandatory slot of time open when you visit. I know Brenda would say the same, I can't imagine going through life in general not knowing a couple like Jay and Dot. They stuck with us through some uncomfortable and trying times in our lives and marriage. Simply put, Jay and Dot are incredible people and hold a very dear spot in our hearts!
 
 
Dot and Brenda in the Kipfer's beautiful backyard.
 
 
Jay and I in the backyard of the Kipfer home.
 
Saturday evening we returned to the Street Fair one more time minus the Lockwoods, but up an Aschilman (Ryan) and two Girods (Ben and Tanya). We left all of our kids at home with an amazing and incredible young woman, Madison Tonner. Madison has watched Grady and Grace seemingly forever! She has always been one of Brenda and my favorites. So dependable, so trustworthy, very mature for her age with our children and difficult situations that arise. She is just beyond amazing, plainly put! The only way to illustrate what I am describing is by the following photo. We walked in the door, and this is on a normal typical night what we would witness upon enter our house, below...
 
 
Madison reading to the kids at Ryan and Brandy's new house. As a side note, If Brandy and Ryan had not just moved in the whole house would be spotless around the children because that's just how  Madison rolls!
 
On Sunday we attended Hope Missionary Church for the first time in over a month. It was great to see familiar faces and friends, but we were sad Pastor Gary was out of town. We were looking forward to a classic sermon from Pastor Gary, but Tony Chaney filled in very nicely. It was a great service!
Following church we went to visit Brenda's Father and Step-mother, Jack and Judy Girod's. We kicked it back, had wonderful conversations, ate pizza, and watched some football. Don't know what we'd do without Jack and Judy's support. They have been very encouraging and helpful too us through this whole walk. From trucking up our belongings, to feeding us pizza, they have been unreal, and we are so thankful for them! I know it's not what they want, to see another daughter and grandkids head overseas, but the fact they know God's at work in us seems to make the situation tolerable.
 
 
Grandpa Jack and Grandma Judy enjoying the grandkids.
 
 
After leaving Grandpa Jack and Grandma Judy's we made a special stop to see a new addition that occurred the last day in August on the thirty-first. My cousins Trent and Leah (Rockwell) Miller were blessed with their first child, a boy, Eli Jay. So glad we finally got to see him! He had more hair than I have ever seen on a baby in my life!
 
 
Here he is! The proud man holding him is his Grandpa Rockwell (Tim, my uncle). It has been a great couple of months for my Uncle Tim. He was married last month to his wife Debbie before we left Bluffton, and now this great gift from God is in his life, Eli!! So happy for my cousins and uncle, love them bunches! Nice to see some positive blessings happen to someone who has been so loving and giving too me and many others over so many years like my uncle has. Want to see someone who will give you the shirt off his back? Look at the man holding baby Eli in the above picture.
 
 
We returned to Jackson shortly after our visit with Eli Sunday afternoon. Life had started to get back to normal and then Grandpa and Grandma King made a visit on Tuesday afternoon, bringing with them generous gifts for us from their fruit trees and garden. They also brought tasty treats that we call "Snack Drawer!" Totally unexpected, but none the less very,very thankful. We then had another treat we are not accustomed too. Having the privilege to go out to eat! The reason for the occasion was my lovely wife's birthday! She chose to eat at the Olive Garden and we returned home with very full stomachs.
The kids played and ran around trying to impress Grandpa and Grandma with their amazing tricks. What they didn't know is Grandpa and Grandma just wanted to see them and hold them. Oh well, we were all there once and understand what it feels like to be an excited child with Grandma and Grandpa's full attention, right?!
 
 
That's a lot of energy you got a hold of Grandma! Gracie is just hangin' with Grandpa King. Gracie has always been my lil' cuddle bug. She has always snuggled with me. I can say without a doubt I wish I could capture those moments forever, because I see them fleeing before my eyes everyday now.
 
The next day, Wednesday the twenty-fifth was Brenda's official birthday! After classes were over one of our classmates offered to watch our children so we could go out together. It wasn't until we were alone in the car, we realized we could be dangerous. Ok, not necessarily dangerous, but silly none the less. I got a couple of pictures of our outing.
Our first stop was at the Parlour. It is an amazing ice cream parlor that has a uniqueness all it's own, like Ivanhoes back in Upland.
 
 
This was called a "Snickers Parfait." It was huge and we shared it. Before we got our ice cream we ordered some chili cheese fries. They too were amazing.
 
 
Without the kids, we got a little carried away and irresponsible at the Target. We had a missionary tell us, if you can't laugh at yourself and take people laughing at you, you'll never make it as a missionary because that's all you get on the field when you screw up in a culture. People laughing at you.


 
 
Only my wife could pull this off. She is the only one who can make a silly mask look hot and seductive when your supposed to look dorky. Happy thirty-first Baby! I love you!
 
 
Well, that's all for now. Now it's back to school. Love you and see you all soon, the Rockwells.

 
 
 

Tuesday, September 3, 2013

Firsts

When a family moves some place new there will always be a lot of firsts. After I started thinking about this post, it seemed that another "first" would pop up. So here is a list of "firsts" that we've encountered in the last 2 weeks (or will encounter by the end of this week).

1. Pizza Night - We ate in the cafeteria for the first time Friday. Pizza for the entire family for $7! It doesn't get much better than that.

2. Tests - Our first test is Friday. I thought if I did this post before I wouldn't be obligated to tell you how we did.:)

3. Food Cart - This is opened to all married student and staff at NTBI. The kitchen puts out all the leftovers from the last 3 days and we can take whatever we want from it. This is the menu I made up after picking up our food last week.


4. News - We received our first big Bluffton News. Kent's cousin, Leah and her husband Trent, had their baby 3 weeks early. He was 8lbs 5oz!! He must have the Rockwell blood. We can't wait to see him.

5. Papers - Kent wrote his first paper this week.


6. Grady's Hair - Grady did his hair for the first time. I'm glad it wasn't on a school day.


7. Dress-up - Grace wanted to dress up as a super hero and Grady wasn't even home. She didn't have it on long but she did want to put it on without her brother's prompting.


8. Iced Coffee- I've never made iced coffee before, but now I have. Yum!


9. Driving - I drove by myself. Grady looks too excited and Grace looks terrified! It went well. I've drove 2 times since!


10. Friends - This past Sunday was a first visit with friends from back home. Joe and Brenda came to see their son and daughter-in-law over the weekend. They live about 45 min from NTBI. They were kind enough to invite us over for lunch after church. The kids had a great time. Grace is the second from the left. Yes, she has boy swim trunks on with a boy swim shirt, but she was so cute. Our friend Brenda is in the back ground.


 11. Married Social - We had our first Married social with married students and staff. It was a blessing to be able to fellowship. I'm enjoying the new friendships we're building here.


12. Hair- After some inspiration from some ladies here, I decided it was time I braided Grace's hair. So after her bath tonight, I French braided Grace's hair. It looked really good, but now she's sleeping on it so it probably won't look as good in the morning. I know our babysitter from Bluffton, Madison, would be proud and my mom would be thankful it's out of her face. I have to admit it does look better braided than when it's all crazy.


12. Books - We've both completed our first book! And in only 7 days. Now if you know either of us very well that's very amazing. It was an excellent book. If you have time to read it, pick it up! You call get it free on your ipod or ipad. It's worth you time.


13. Lists- My sister Brandy is the best list maker in the world. Each of her lists are color coded and written in wonderful hand writing. Before coming to NTBI I thought lists were.... overrated. And now I'm here. I make lists all the time. Lists for what needs done. Lists for the grocery store. Lists for a blog post. List for food cart. So many lists. The funny thing, I don't always complete them or cross everything off. It's just that I forget so much that I have to write it all down.

So that's it. Our 2 week of firsts. I'm sure that more will come, as is typical with change. I'm thankful that the change has been slow. I'm also thankful that some things never change. That Street Fair comes to Bluffton every year.  Having sisters that love you. Having friends that care and invest in you. Having a God that always working on to make us more like him.